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pandia__ 50F
3097 posts
5/23/2018 6:35 pm

Leaving you hugs. Onward is good. Resting is too. You're doing the right thing.


alt5250 61M
1283 posts
5/23/2018 7:27 pm

Makes perfect sence... went through something similar a while ago. Balance will come back... glad to hear you are eating. One step at a time....


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
5/23/2018 8:46 pm

Baby Steps.

You just keep doing what you're doing Tsarah, move forward in any increments. I admire your strength and courage. 💖

“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


TheBargee 68M
16315 posts
5/24/2018 2:14 am

Perfect sense.


brandygirasol 54T
9365 posts
5/24/2018 6:03 am

TIME is your friend


drmgirl622 68F  
25880 posts
5/24/2018 11:25 am

Each of us grieve in our own way.....the important thing is that you are trying and doing your best to cope.


IAmMichaelURKnot 62M
14380 posts
5/24/2018 5:12 pm

Progress is progress.

Don't worry about the size of the steps.

Just keep moving forward.

I remember now.


kittykitty1260 63F
15748 posts
5/24/2018 5:20 pm

Agrees with Michael.
There is no time limit on grief or sorrow and I think in time you will waltz yourself to a happier place.

Remember you will never forget him, and the happier times you remember will have you 2 stepping at the pace you'll be happier to be.

Big

“Who says life is fair, where is that written?”
― William Goldman, The Princess Bride


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
5/24/2018 8:28 pm

Came back to leave you the hugs below, but glancing back over your text, the words, "Does this make sense to anyone?" struck me hard.
Life has knocked the wind out of me so hard, sometimes it seemed impossible to even breath. But I did breath, and I did get up, and I did move on.
I have lost 3 of my 5 brothers, 3 of my 4 sisters, my father and mother, and too many other loved ones to mention. I am no stranger to grief and its horrific, sometimes disabling pain. There is a verse that acknowledges what death is to us, it says: "The last enemy that shall be destroyed is death." An enemy doesn't come but to bring pain and suffering. The thing is, it's up to us to get up from the canvas (Picture Rocky here) and start hitting back! Hitting back can be, bringing someone flowers, cooking someone a meal, volunteering, going for a walk. In fact, it can be anything that doesn't feed the pain.
Well, sorry for going on and on here, lol. Heck, you'll probably get better just so I won't come back

Oops, forgot a couple things . . .

“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


anteater14 61M
2229 posts
5/24/2018 11:21 pm

It makes all the sense in the world - the only way is forward.

You can look back from time to time in memory of the past, but life goes on for you and you have to keep forging forwards ..... one step at a time.

D xx

Carpe Diem - the past is history, and the future is bleak.


Sucker4Ever 112M
6750 posts
5/25/2018 10:54 pm

Who wins, Tsarah, who wins? That's what it all comes down to. who, are you going to allow to win?

“Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.”


heartofmush 55F
7884 posts
5/27/2018 5:02 am

it is a really a bit by bit process. funny how the very mundane things we do seem to become unimportant and we start to fall apart. i am glad you are going towards recovery. hugs, sweet friend.

The cut worm forgives the plow. W. Blake, Proverbs of Hell



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