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Response to: dom asking sub to bring her own collar 10/10/2003
Now this is a new one! Sounds to me more like he's too
cheap to buy them himself.
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How long have you known this man? Have you ever met real time
before?
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Is he wanting you to wear the collar just to play, or as a symbol
of ownership? Do you WANT to be lead around on a leash???
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There are MANY other questions I would ask you and this man...you ...
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Living nearby isn't a Match in Itself 10/10/2003
I get tired of trying to weed out from people what they are
looking for when they respond to my add. Please, if you are
a new Dom let me know, I will figure it out by talking to you
anyway, and by that time you will have already blown the
trust that is so important to me. If you are just interested
in kink, well please don't bother. I played kink plenty
in vanilla and fun as it was, you ...
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The Difference Between Sub and Slave 10/9/2003
The difference between a submissive and a slave is choice.
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The submissive CHOOSES who will or will not be dominant
over her. If a person is not dominant over her, then that
person is her equal.
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The submissive CHOOSES when and where to submit, within
reason. The submissive CHOOSES what is not to be done to
her, again within reason. The submissive CHOOSES ...
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Has anyone heard, of a Dom, asking the submissive to supply the collar? 10/7/2003
Will say, i am a new sub, but this had me thinking.
A Dom from A.L.T responded to my ad, we chatted on the phone
and I.M for about a week and a meet was set up..
The night before, he asked if i would allow myself to be collared,
but i would have to supply the collar and would i bring along
a lead also? I did ask about this, he said, as not to make me
feel nervous, if i had familiar ...
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Dungeon sessions filmed 10/4/2003
Hope the title grabbed attention but I need advice, especialy
from any in the UK.
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Someone close to me was sexualy abused during her early
teens (started just before her 13th birthday and the worst
of it went on for near 2yrs). I'm helping her through
it all and she is doing extremely well but there is one thing
causing her great fear and concern........ The most extreme ...
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re: Learn the Difference 10/4/2003
Many people who claim to be submisives complain about inexperienced
doms or accuse others of not being "true doms".
These people usually give no specifics about what they
think differentiates a "real" dom from a wannabe.
This kind of whining is quite out of character for a submisive
and would certainly require some sort of punishment in
response. A well trained submisive will obey her ...
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re: Learn the Difference 10/3/2003
I'd have to agree with this... I have encountered quite
a number of "Doms" that are just kinky men. There
is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that at all...But those
of us that are looking for an experience with a "Dom"
don't want to have to train one. One common mistake
is "I am Dominant in my everyday life, therefore I'm
a Dom".. Well darlins I am dominant in MY everyday
life, I am a ...
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2002 Movie "Secretary" on Cinimax 9/30/2003
i was wondering if anyone else saw the movie "Sercretary"
this weekend on Cinimex. (i am sure they will play it over
and over). Did anyone else think that it captured the passion
and obcession of a submissive the way that i did? just curious.
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nysubexecutive
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To "Sod As-Is" 9/26/2003
I find this very disturbing. I have great compassion for
you because I know that something terrible must have happened
to you with which you have not dealt. What I'm saying
is that I don't understand how you got to be in a place
where you would consider giving up your free will. Is the
responsibility of making decisions for yourself so overwhelming
for you, or do you just not feel ...
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You Never Get A Second Chance to Make a Good Impression 9/6/2003
The old addage is definitely true. For all of those Dominants
out there that have been stood up by submissives I have a
little news for You all....We get stood up too. There has
recently as I have found out a shortage of upstanding Dominant
Males that fit my particular category, which in and of itself
is fine, I will be patient but I cannot abide being stood
up. Have the curtesy to call ...
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Pictures 9/1/2003
Pictures can hurt or help you in your profile. Most that
I view hurt the person and not help. Especially the men.
Most agree that dick pics are not a way to a woman's heart
(other men seem to like them) and if a male is looking for
A submissive but has a female in his picture (not married
or is a couple) this can also be a turnoff, especially if
that male is looking for R/T or LTR; a ...
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Regarding the 'I will Leave' article 8/31/2003
The person who wrote that article is to be admired and respected.
It touched me deeply. Why? Because it happened to me and
we went our separate ways because he was always searching
for others, not appreciating what he had in his home. I do
not know if he is happy or sad, nor do I care any longer. He
broke my heart, but it has healed.
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Lies and dishonesty are indeed ...
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I will leave... 8/30/2003
If push comes to shove I will leave you! I will pack my things
and I will take our . I will leave you if I you are communicating
on alt or any other site or group for your own selfish pleasure's.
I will leave you if I find that you have been mailing others
behind my back and without my consent. I will leave even
though I love you but you see sweetheart I love myself also.
I love and care ...
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Thank you, responding to "The Rules" 8/11/2003
After reading "The Rules" I was sitting back
smiling to myself and in some sense smiling to the author.
Bravo! And thank you many times over. Thank you for putting
my thoughts out there with yours. Thank you for stating
what I have tried and tried to convey in person for so many
years. Thank you so much.
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In my multi year search for a caring relationship with someone
I ...
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Erotic Story Writing - Part 1 6/14/2003
Erotic story writing can be entertaining, challenging,
fun, or discouraging.
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I hope that as you write your first erotic story, it is entertaining.
If it doesn't entertain you, then what will your readers
think? But do understand that it won't entertain everyone.
Go to your local porn store - I am assuming you do have a local
porn store - and if you haven't been there, why ...
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Be Respectful 6/7/2003
next article in my "Be..." series of advice.
subs/slaves should always be respectful to a Master/Mistress.
though many people are new to the lifestyle or just curious,
remember there are many real Masters/Mistresses online
at alt that are used to subs/slaves being respectful. do
not be shocked if a Master/Mistress leaves if you are not.
I as a Mast in-turn have learn since ...
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Can't All Be The Same...... 5/31/2003
No two Doms/Dommes or submissives are exactly the same
in the alternative lifestyle. Everyone is different with
differrent likes and dislikes and learning that about
each other is an important part of any relationship. Mutual
respect for those differences goes a long way toward any
agreement or comprimise. Even in the Ds relationship there
is an 'exchange of power' and issues of ...
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Be Serious about the lifestyle 4/27/2003
1) Be Serious: though many people are curious about different
things they find on-line. Be serious. If only looking for
information say you are and if the person has time and is
willing to give then ok. Otherwise ask if anywhere to find
further information and if maybe potentially interested
in the future ask if can contact again. Do not accept ownership
and then fail to turn up.
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Be Honest with others 4/27/2003
Be Honest: Too many slaves/sub I have met on-line who find
they do not get the number of Masters/Mistresses they are
looking for who are willing to give errotic stories and/or
cyber play. So they say they are looking for full 24/7 and
use excuses to get what they want. example saying tell me
what would happen during a typical day and describe a evening
of use so can see what I should expect ...
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male g spots... 4/26/2003
Just a little advice to guys out there. While many of you
may very well know of this occurance, I thought I would take
a brief opportunity to bring to light the actuality of male
G spot information. While many equalize the fact of being
anally penetrated with being gay, it just isn't so.
Being gay, is not necessarily a good or bad thing, it is a
persons lifestyle choice associated ...
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Reply to do i tell a woman 4/14/2003
Yes, please tell her. I recently met someone on alt. He said
the chemistry was not strong enough for him (7 on a scale
of 1-10)so nothing more than a weekend of fun took place.
We said we'd stay in touch but he doesn't even respond
to platonic emails...I think it is because he believes
I wanted more...He is wrong. I was less attracted to him
than i was the situation but, i thought we ...
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Response to "Do I tell a Woman" 4/2/2003
The answer is an absolute YES!
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It is your duty to warn other women if they are getting involved
with a known jackass/predator.
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The hard part is knowing when you have said and done all you
can. If the woman doesn't want to listen, there is nothing
more you can do but be there for her when the inevitable end
arrives.
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TylerRose.
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The Bra Experience--For all Well-Endowed Women 4/2/2003
The Bra Experience
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Having been “well-endowed” pretty much since the moment
I hit puberty, I know full well the discomfort of this contraption
called the brassiere. (Who invented this thing and can
we go back in time and kill him before he invents it???) Add
the under wire and an improperly fit bra becomes a torture
worse than any dominant can think up. ...
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Re: Life-with-weight, you go girl! 3/25/2003
It is a shame that so many people are put off by appearances
and pre-suppose attitude and aptitude by the way someone
looks! I love the variety offered by all shapes, sizes,
races, and attitudes. We all have something to learn from
each other. Each of us has strength that is unique regardless
of body size.
I myself prefer large and rugged, but even more important,
I prefer someone who ...
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If you love them, can you discipline them? 3/25/2003
I have a problem with my master..He has lost his objectivity.
I feel he loves me too much to discipline me in the way I crave
and deserve. Is it time to find a new master?
Nawti girl
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Changes 3/23/2003
My lover advertised in alt com, we got together and we really
like each other (probably love). I need advice, he was advertising
for a submissive to practice Ds love scenes. (Not a life
style). And, now he doesn't seem interested. (In fact
the batteries have run down on the toys from sitting on the
shelf) I knew from the beginning that he was a switch, and
I have offered to learn to ...
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RE: Sold AS IS 3/16/2003
If you would like response to your question you came to the
wrong place. In the center of the Magazine page is another
place that says , click on the link where it says
[ADD QUESTION] and people can respond directly to that
question instead of grading it [good] [excel] etc. You
do seem to need someone to tell you to get out.
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correction to question #7457 3/4/2003
I acidently said I been Married for 50 years. The correction
is I been Married for only 30 years. Iam 50 years old going
on 51 this sunday. Sorry for the wrong information.
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response: female golden showers 3/3/2003
I am responding to the golden shower questions raised in
a late february article. Yes, men can direct their showers
more readily. First off, this isn't necessarily better
and not necessarily desired by the dom or the sub recipient.
A good full spray on the body or face as one tries to catch
it all can be quite delightful. Second, i have served under
women that have not so much of a full ...
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To freaky to keep as a friend? HELP! 2/28/2003
I met a very interesting woman that I found that I had a great
time hanging out with. We were out a couple of weeks ago and
got into a lot of tequila. Anyway...she decided to tell
me a few secrets about herself:
She was molested as a . She is bi sexual. She has had
more lovers than I have. She had a freaky session with a girlfriend
and a dog.
I now have a really hard time saying hi as ...
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