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deer181818 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
virgin looking to be used - 8/8/2002

i am looking for a dom that wants to brake in a virgin i am a sub mail that wants to be used as a sex toy for a man or woman where can i find one

7 response(s), 2 votes
Tom101069 68 M
1 question
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Woman who like to dress their men in lingerie - 7/31/2002

I live in Atlanta and I would like to find a woman who likes their men in lingerie! I have been a closet Crossdresser, but I can fulfil a women's sexual desires much better and longer when dressed! I am handsome and enjoy having a good time! A women with a strapon really turns me on! I also enjoy Asian women because they seem to be very open about new ideas! Let me know if you are out ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
MasterPet 58 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Extreme Tit-torture - Br-Bondage - Br-Suspension - 7/30/2002

I´m fascinated about extrem (but sane!) tit- torture. I´ve seen several pics on the net and on some profiles where heavy painsluts have been hanging around with their full weight only on their tight bound tits. I´d like to play such extreme games too, but I want to hear from experienced Tops / painsluts about the healty risks and the major know how to avoid injury. Further I´d looking ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
usmale4u2 65 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What percentage of women have ever experienced - 7/30/2002

I absolutely love giving oral pleasures to women. I am a pleaser by all accounts but I also like to be pleased. Being pleased myself is not my goal when I make love to a woman. However, over the years I have found that by giving pleasure to a woman actually satifies me completely, even if I don't climax myself. I love seeing the excitement, or even fear in the eyes of a woman that is ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
deek976 81 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Mental pain - 7/23/2002

Need some advice on inflicting mental pain. Lets face it we call all do the physical stuff, but the mental is a bit more trickly.. Need some help and advice with this for my female sub.

0 response(s), 1 vote
dirtyboy82 34 M
1 question
Score 0.0
fetish groups / clubs in scotland - 7/16/2002

i'm moving up to stirling (between glasgow & edinburgh) in scotland, in september, and would love to find some fetish groups or clubs who are into the same stuff as me: <br> play , anal sex, rimming, ass play, roleplaying, scat & piss play, latex, leather, etc <br> if there aren't any groups already, is there anyone willing to help start one? <br> email me... ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
in10seplay 52 M
1 question
Score 0.0
wife wont do it - 7/15/2002

Ive been married for 6 years now and often times find myself wandering into the fantasy world. I have tried to express my feelings of domination/submission to my wife but she wants nothing to do with it. I have attempted to try various techniques on my wife only to be scorned for thinking these thoughts. I am a very dominant person but wouldnt mind submitting either. I fantasize of being ...

3 response(s), 0 votes
AsaSchwartz 86 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
ALT lifestyle groups in Ocala FL? - 7/10/2002

Are there any ALT lifestyle groups in Ocala FL? how can I contact them?

0 response(s), 0 votes
yrslaveboy24 46 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Sub/slave? - 7/8/2002

What is the difference between a sub and a slave?

4 response(s), 4 votes
mistresskallima 47 F
1 question
Score 0.0
HELP! MICHIGAN WOMAN NEEDED! initals A. H. - 7/4/2002

i am looking for a certain girl. perhaps you know her. she lived in grand rapids MI in 1992 to 1993. i want you back. i miss you.

0 response(s), 1 vote
AsaSchwartz 86 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Groups in Ocala FL? - 7/3/2002

Is there a Dom/Sub community in Ocala FL.? How can I contact them?

0 response(s), 0 votes
jatem01 74 M
1 question
Score 0.0
New help needed to meet female - 6/30/2002

How do you start as I would like to meet female emales / f in North of England Scotland to experiment in sex with domination and submision Feel I want to be Dominator but would be prepared to try sub to see Might rebel

0 response(s), 0 votes
sdick 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Etectrotorture - 6/29/2002

Can anyone tell me where to buy electrical torture devices?

1 response(s), 0 votes
Anton246 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
I need a woman with a camera - 6/29/2002

I'm a 36 year old male looking to get back 'on scene' after a prolonged absence & I need photos for my ad. I've tried a few Alt members but none seems willing to help. If any women (preferably in or around Gloucestershire or Lancashire, England) are able to help me out in this respect then I will, of course, return the favour in any way desired. Genuine offers or advice please. No ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
mn_sub 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
where do i find a prodom in minnesota - 6/29/2002

i have been looking for a dom to put me in my place but have not had any luck as of yet.can anyone suggest a prodom in minnesota or northern wisconsin.thanks...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Latein1 47 M
1 question
Score 0.0
New to New York - 6/29/2002

I just moved to New York and am looking for clubs/bars to meet open minded people who are into both, BDSM and/or straight sex. I am sure you can help.....

0 response(s), 0 votes
BoundHearts 59 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Where Do Couples Go To Meet Other Couples In Denmark (And The Surrounding Area)? - 6/25/2002

We are a mixed couple who moved to Europe 7 months ago from the states. We have both been into BDSM for about a year now (light private play with one another). We have profiles posted here and at 2 other sites, BUT feel that it is very hard getting responses. We are by no means ugly or lacking in social skills! Maybe just a little shy, but very curious & open-minded!! We would like to ...

1 response(s), 1 vote
norrinrad 56 M
1 question
Score 0.0
force me to suck cock(s) - 6/24/2002

Married white male. Want to experience submission to a woman or multiple women. My fantasy starts with me submitting to a small group of women. I had volunteered to jerk off for their amusement in a response to an online chat. When I arrive the 3 women take a very aggressive stance with me and order me to strip naked. I put on my show for them but I cum to soon. I am grabbed by my hair ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
ulla 64 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Advice for sub - 6/23/2002

I am a sub with less than 1 year of experience. I find myself confused about my current situation. I am searching for a place where I can ask questions of and get advice from other subs. Does anyone know of such an online place? Thank you!

0 response(s), 0 votes
terry1025 71 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Are there any women in Southern California to orally service during - 6/22/2002

I am an attractive WM DD Free (Scorpio) who flouishes on the total taste of a woman. When they say Oh I can't it is that time of the month my response is that it only makes it more exciting and pleasurable - I love the taste of a woman anytime. Most women freak out my question is are there any women in Southern California (That is not a Pro) who would enjoy that experience?

0 response(s), 0 votes
bowser370 36 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Makeing ur own fun? - 6/21/2002

how do u make ur own sex toys (using house hold items (im a guy..so the old round object things don't work..and id prefer no fruit)...thanks

0 response(s), 0 votes
deepdivingnude7 80 M
1 question
Score 0.0
24/7 - 6/21/2002

What is the meaning of 24/7 and the accompaning sentence Total Power exchange. Curious dom.

2 response(s), 0 votes
4scompany 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Why do I feel unwanted stress about My Masterdom - 6/16/2002

Will I feel stress at the the fact some people want things without geting their fingers dirty, why does one sit in chat rooms when there is a serious need by , both parties to get it really on. Only one transexully made me feel like a master of any worth until the poor thing found out i was black and back right out. I would not in the least bit of hurt her or made her a suject of foolish ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
imins8tiable 52 F
1 question
Score 0.0
where are all the freaky ppl at in north Carolin by fayetteville? - 6/11/2002

Well i would like to find a female that likes threesomes and dont mind sharing in some good earth sattering sex with me and my man but everyone is so undercover here can anybody around the area help?

3 response(s), 2 votes
SubTamerLdog 56 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How can I tell If a woman is seriously a submissive? - 6/8/2002

I am a soon-to-be divorced Black male, and am returning to the alternate lifestyle that I became accustomed to. I used to be able to guess if a woman is submissive, but that was three years ago. My problem is that I can?t tell if a woman is dominant or submissive in a heartbeat. How can I be sure if a woman is truly submissive?

2 response(s), 0 votes
mck3222 53 M
1 question
Score 0.0
A bigger penis. - 6/6/2002

hi friends, do anyone know how should i have a bigger penis? Please help. Thank you.

0 response(s), 0 votes
mwoky 81 M
1 question
Score 0.0
how can i find someone to fist me gor the first time? - 6/5/2002

am a submissive bottom who deeply enjoy's dildo's and butt plugs and now wants to try fisting. how do i locate someone to share my first experience with?

3 response(s), 1 vote
newtoaltbdsm 49 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Virgin need help - 5/30/2002

Hi I am a 27 year old Virgin and that scares most women I meet. How do I find someone who is not worried about me getting to attached to them. Or am I cursed forever. Please help

0 response(s), 0 votes
lookin4fun2 55 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
I know this is really gross but is anyone into puke? - 5/29/2002

More and more porn includes puking lately. Whether it is girls inducing vomiting for guys to watch or puking on guys/girls or rough oral sex which leads to vomit, seems to be more of it. Also many chat lines for girls and guys who get off on it. I am a dom who would like to make his sub puke as part of a session, as long as she is "willing". Anyone done this? I am in NY/NJ metro area. ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
spikeskat 59 C
1 question
Score 0.0
What activities are involved for female dominatrix? - 5/25/2002

We are a couple who are interested in exploring BDSM. The female is interested in becoming a dominatrix. What activities are good to begin with?

1 response(s), 0 votes