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lookin4fun2 55 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Please describe scent fetish - 5/25/2002

Can anyone describe the scent fetish

0 response(s), 0 votes
stann59 64 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Needle nipple torture... - 5/24/2002

I have seen pics of needles used for nipple and breast torture. They have a plastic tab on the dull end making them easier to hold. Does anyone know where to buy such needles? Are they acupuncture needles? Any info here would be appreciated, thanks, Stann59 or exinker@aol.com

1 response(s), 0 votes
wildcouple2ofus 63 C
3 questions
Score 0.0
DOM FEMALE needed on 6/11/02 on our vacation to florida - 5/22/2002

We are looking for a dom female to complet our florida vacation.You don't want to miss out on this one. I'm wanting to be used by your strap-on do you think you can make me cum? Only if you bang me harder...Husband and I will both be at your call but please no strap-on for him I want it all.

0 response(s), 0 votes
blueyelady 77 F
1 question
Score 0.0
finding a Master - 5/18/2002

I am a newbie...and am finding it very difficult to find a Master...would like to know how to go about this...have looked at all the profiles..but the ones I am atracted to are too far away...please help me with this...

1 response(s), 3 votes
naughtyfox 55 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Transgenders in portland,OR - 5/16/2002

Where to find such a lady that still has a funtional penis yet big beutiful breast that will help me ravish my very sexy husband???

0 response(s), 0 votes
analaddict2 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
is there a european castle for D/s play? - 5/5/2002

I was having a discussion with a friend and she asked if there is such a thing as a D/s castle in Europe for fun & play. Outfitted with dungeons, etc. Anyone know of such?

0 response(s), 0 votes
amberd10 71 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Drinking my own piss - 4/21/2002

I drink my piss and enjoy it. I drink it staight or piss in my coffee or juice. I have been thinking lately that I wish to drink my morning piss. The thought of pissing in a glass when I get up really turns me on. Is there anything wrong with drinking my morning piss. I have read on the net that many people do that but I don't know how accurate that is.

0 response(s), 0 votes
LeeSiuLoong 61 M
1 question
Score 0.0
I can't seem to get any responses, what am I doing wrong ? - 4/14/2002

I am a good looking Dom who owns several businesses and love to treat the women who I get very well. When it is time for BDSM, she get's all she can handle and more. And when it's time for security, she always feels wanted, and needed, and never wants for anything material. Now I seem to have hit a dry spell. No one seems to want me for some reason. What am I doing wrong ? What ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
z12use 50 M
1 question
Score 0.0
sub wants 2 know am i sick in the head or like others!!! - 3/31/2002

i have always liked 2 crossdress since the age of 4or5 something about the feel of knee high hose that turned me on at that young age i enjoyed wearing them they felt so soft and sensual they made me feel like i was close to a woman and that nice feeling that most of us got as when your mom would try 2 make u feel better after a bike wreck or when u was sick with a cold!! well ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
arete 45 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Advice for Newby - 3/27/2002

I'm completely new to the scene and am anxious to know about how to get into the scene and what the social rules are, etc.?

0 response(s), 2 votes
muffdiverf250 41 M
1 question
Score 0.0
how do you make a girl squart cum - 3/25/2002

i would like to now how to get a girl or lady to squart cum from her pussy

1 response(s), 0 votes
tobo1 76 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
cybersex - 3/24/2002

I am totally new to the computer and I am hoping someone would explain cybersex to me

0 response(s), 0 votes
wildcouple2ofus 63 C
3 questions
Score 0.0
BI FEMALE with STRAP-ON needed WHEREare you???? - 3/23/2002

Well it seems that we are unable to find what we are so in need of....I'm looking for a female to work me over with a strap on..What am I looking for sub??? dom??? am I going about this all the wrong way??? the strap on is for me not my husband although he will be working me over to..This is something I have been dreaming about for a long time and it just is not working out at all...What do ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
needsspankin 60 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
Sub or bottom???? - 3/19/2002

How can i tell if i am a sub or a bottom?? What is the difference between the two? I very much enjoy spankings, whips, crops etc. I like to be dominated. But what am i?

1 response(s), 0 votes
meadowbunni 69 F
1 question
Score 0.0
i want to give breast milk - 3/17/2002

how can i stimulate my breasts into giving milk without getting pregnant?

3 response(s), 0 votes
Kuromaku 39 M
1 question
Score 0.0
TPE - 3/17/2002

I am new, and i have heard TPE used, and i have no idea what it means

0 response(s), 0 votes
MODCOCK 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Dick head with hair? - 3/9/2002

Just wondering if anyone has any experience or has seen or heard of guys with a hairy cock head. Mine suddenly sprouted hundreds of rapidly growing hairs just on the head.... seems very strange to me....

0 response(s), 0 votes
Pavarotie 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
muscle relaxant for anal fisting - 3/7/2002

Is there anything on the market that will relax the anal walls, when applied prior to intense anal play. I have my slave bearing down doggie style with my elbow on the bed, so she can take as much as is pain bearingly possible. My thumb tucked well in, plenty of lube, my hand shaped like a but plug, and still not managing to get past my knuckles. It may be a tight hole, and I have got big ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
BTBAR11 74 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Swing Clubs - 2/22/2002

We are a swinging couple from south jersey and are interested in finding a club for swing, just a no pressure type place where people are there for the same reason we are.I know there are no signs posting these types of clubs, or a listing in the yellow pages.If there is anyone out there who can help us with this please let us know, anywhere in the state would be helpful.

0 response(s), 0 votes
PEPIE 49 F
1 question
Score 0.0
mistress moving a new sub in w/ her for 24/7 - 2/16/2002

i am a mistress and i have met a sub w/ no limitations, i am wondering how would a live in arrangemnet work, and a couple of months later getting married, how do i separate being domme and falling in love with my sub and not wanting to hurt him, how do i separate the 2 and losing the fire as being a domme.

0 response(s), 0 votes
lovingyatonight 42 F
1 question
Score 0.0
dying hair and bi sex - 2/13/2002

i have preaty much given up the whole shaving thing at least down there. but i am intersted in trimming it and then dying it blond. anyone with suggestions please drop a note. Now the second part of my question. my boyfriend is intersted in bi sex. to this point i pleasure him by fingering him i was wondering if a strap on would make him happy or should i ask a gay friend of mine to join ...

5 response(s), 0 votes
brainwave 74 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Anyone in UK who prefers mutual masturbation to penetration? - 2/11/2002

Am I unusual? I would like to meet a woman without the hassle of worrying about penetration. For me one of the greatest pleasures is to bring a woman to a climax by clitoral stimulation. It is fantastic to see the pleasure this produces and the intensity of the climax because she knows she can just enjoy the moment for what it is. Similarly when a woman brings me to a climax it is all the ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Ms_J_and_FB 55,1958 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Dom wife needs experience,sub hubby choping on bit where do we go? - 2/8/2002

we are new to these roles I loved being dom agressive male but have recently found love beeing sub even more wife needs more confidenced and ideas wondering if there are groups/couples/singels in our area for help she only wants subs I think she woried that she wont have controll if other dom is there we both like TV'S/CD'S so I guess what I'm saying is HEEELLLP!!!!! WE ARE IN ALEXANDRIA ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
cribplayer 68 M
1 question
Score 0.0
confused bi sub in nevada - 2/6/2002

I've been looking for a female sub partner maybe more for 1yr in swinger mags & phone services. I have been honest and to the point in what I'm looking for. You read about sluts but they are all married. Are'nt there any single woman out there who would like a open & eager partner. Maybe couples would help out single guys like me in finding a match. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you

0 response(s), 0 votes
HornywithHeels 47 F
1 question
Score 0.0
alt holiday resorts? - 2/6/2002

Can anyone supply details of holiday destinations with an adult / alt theme ?

1 response(s), 0 votes
Mountndelight 60 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Anal training - 1/22/2002

my Master has instructed me to find out about anal training using butt plugs, as he wishes to begin training me in wearing them so i will be more open and accessible in that area to him. i am interested to hear what experiences other subs have had in this type of training so i may report back to him before my training begins.

0 response(s), 0 votes
pirri7 60,1950 C
1 question
Score 0.0
Erotic vacation - 1/21/2002

Hello we are a copel som want to fund one erotict plase on the world ther the is possible to have nice vacation wid lots of sex exp. on the beach, wid or insaid of the swiming pool, wid m.m. <br> Best Regards uffe / Alesja <br> P.s We are open for all proposition

0 response(s), 0 votes
frustrated33 56 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Waxing hair on the labia - 1/18/2002

Can someone please help? my DOM wants me to wax the hair on my perineal/anal areas. My problem is that I cannot find a wax that recommends using it for that purpose. I've tried to carefully do small areas as test patches, but I cannot get the hair to come off. Does anyone know of a particular brand of wax and/or techniques to help me get this done?

0 response(s), 0 votes
fraterrobo 69 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What Is Meant By - 1/11/2002

I've encountered the term "age play" in personal ads, and I'm not sure what it is.

0 response(s), 0 votes
slave_peachess 64 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Club - 1/10/2002

I have recently relocated to my Master in the Wichita, Kansas area. Is there in bdsm clubs or the like in the area or surrounding areas. I am sure my Master wouldn't mind traveling a bit.

0 response(s), 1 vote