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The Advice Line lets you ask all those questions you always wanted and then get advice from all the members of Pandemos Personals.
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masterindigo 58 M
1 question
Score 0.0
No visible signs of play. - 1/12/2000

I am looking for a way to play with a submissive that will not leave marks. She is very fair skinned and bruises easily. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I can physically do to her?

1 response(s), 0 votes
abe56 66 C
1 question
Score 0.0
How to become a master - 11/2/1999

I would like to know how to become a master? I like to be able to domnate woman and have them do as I want. Would like for some one to show me how I could become a good master. Looking to get as much infomation as posable.

0 response(s), 0 votes
tarro 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
there,s a problem with the request of (women loking for men ) in the contry of canada. - 8/15/1999

could you check this section for me and try to organise this section as soon as you could please , because i don't under stand what's happen there or if it's my P.C. is in trouble. Thank for your attention, " tarro".

0 response(s), 0 votes
col007 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
why ??? - 6/2/1999

i get turned on (and have to go off and have a wank if she is not in the mood if she is it only last about 5 mins) when my girlfriend shouts at me dose that mean i am a sub ?

0 response(s), 0 votes
loveall6666 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
watersports/scat - 5/22/1999

Hi! I'm in a switch s/m rel.ship.My female partner wanted me to eat(her scat) and drink(her golden shower) from her which really turned me on.In the heat of the session being really turned on, I wanted to as well and did everything and anything she wanted me to do I willingly ate and drank everything I could. It was wonderful.We are in different geograghical loc. now though so we can't meet. I ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
tela 46 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
cheap and easy chastity... - 5/21/1999

Well.. my question is quite simple and easy.. i'm lookinf for a cheap and easy chastity device for a female to prevent Masturbation (i know not easy but at least one to prevent insertion) Thanks A lot whoever can assist me

0 response(s), 0 votes
BILT2469 77 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Does any one read and/or respond to these questions? - 5/19/1999

I have just browsed over all the questions in the first page. and in the colum that lists the number of reply's, there's a zero... in ALL of them. I wonder if the "counter" is down, or if no one realy cares to reply.

0 response(s), 1 vote
cymbidia 67 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
where to find good, high-quality, info on flame play? - 5/14/1999

i have a budding (flickering to life?) interest in flame play. it's not a thing i will throw myself into, even if i could find someone willing to light the match ~grin~, but i would like to find some good sources of info on this subject. i've discovered that, sadly, that there's not much readily available on this subject. i'd like written info, of course, as well as pics and ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
ra5zz 75 M
1 question
Score 0.0
SHOULD I SPANK A 22 YEAR OLD GIRL - 5/14/1999

I have been ask by a 22 year old girl to spank her. She wants a serious spanking with a paddle and by hand. She wants me to e her Master and spank her ass until it is black and blue. She does not want sex just a real serious spanking. She is 22 and i am 52. Do you think i should do it? and do you have any spanking tips you could share wiht me??

8 response(s), 7 votes
LIBIDOC 68 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Autofellatio - 3/29/1999

I enjoy jerking off into my own mouth. The pleasure would be enhanced if I could actually suck my own penis. No matter how much I bend, I can only get to within 1 1/2" from my mouth to cockhead. When I was a , I could insert it an inch or two. How can I gain the flexibility to reach and suck my phallus? Related question: I would love to be watched by female(s) while doing this, or even ...

0 response(s), 3 votes
Phallca 70 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How to find the male 'G' spot - 3/17/1999

Ok ladies sit up and take notice. Much to popular belief you are not the only ones with a 'G' spot. Its true that your is easier to reach than ours but once you have found it be ready for some spectacular fireworks from your partner. Ever noticed how when you get anywhere near your partners anus his hips start rising? Well this is because your only a few inch from his 'G' spot. Try oiling ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
Zontitti 45 C
1 question
Score 0.0
What are some ideas that I can have my male slave do? - 3/5/1999

I began a few months ago dominating our relationship. I just started anal play and wearing of womens panties. I need ideas that would apply to him. I am now his mistress 24/7 and i provide him with lists that have to be completed. So please i ask you please give me some new ideas, for i want him to know that women are superior to him and his little package.

0 response(s), 2 votes
mrphoto54 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
where can i find to sell my erotic photos - 2/15/1999

I have several erotic photos of different women doing different things and would like to find someplace to sell them.

0 response(s), 0 votes
tela 46 F
4 questions
Score 0.0
How to ask? - 1/31/1999

Well my question is a simple yet complex one. Here's the problem. I know my girlfrined is into BDSM and that she enjoys being the Domme. I wish to to play sub to her... but can;t quite ask... any sugestions?

1 response(s), 2 votes
Beastman69 46 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How do I work on a budget - 1/25/1999

I am a starving college student who couldn't afford the complete gear. Are there any creative people out there who can help me have great sex on a budget?

0 response(s), 0 votes
- 1999-01-13

How does one find submissive women? It don't take toys to be dominate, but I'm new to the game whaat should I have? what should my add say to get what i want

response(s), votes
SexMachine9364 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Obsession of a Dominatrix - 1/7/1999

What should I do about re-contacting a Dominatrix who seems to have become an obsession to me? I should explain more. I first found this lady 15 years ago through a snail mail contact mag. Over the next 3 years we exchanged correspondance. She gave me 'Slave training' and I responded. Our D/s relationship became more personal but we never formally met. I lost touch when I went abroad for a ...

3 response(s), 6 votes
moby18_50 74 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What should i do first to see if i'm bi? - 11/22/1998

I sometimes think that I would like to make love to a woman while a man enters me from behind. I don't think i could take him oral and i know i couldn't kiss him. does this sound abnormal?

2 response(s), 2 votes
Osezno98 73 M
1 question
Score 0.0
What's gore?. What is pagan in BDSM terms?. - 10/23/1998



1 response(s), 1 vote
V_good_looking 55 M
1 question
Score 0.0
vaginal fisting - 10/22/1998

I wonder is it possible a woman taking vaginal fisting without giving birth experience. Any ALT experienced women let me know the answer?

1 response(s), 1 vote